Get Her from Foreplay to Orgasmic Bliss – #SexTips

I hope all the femmes’ fatales carried out the fellatio exercise as per my last blog post or intend to when the opportunity befall itself. Imagine how liberating it will be when people are sexually liberated and emancipated to explore and indulge into their sexuality and unlock the unending bliss that lies unearthed in that space – I am almost certainly sure, we will see all relaxed, less tensed and smiley faces everywhere – energetic and chemically balanced beings we would have all become I presume.

In all my dealings with the female species – I can certainly testify that the spoken word evoke emotions – sensations that spiral her blood flow in all parts of her body, even though this relatively depend on the topic being discussed. When it comes to erotically induced words, women come alive and their imagination go wild.

It is such a fun site to see when lovers step out the role of “being themselves” – it can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently for a better and healthy sex life.

Women are cyclic creatures, their sex drive will vary depending on her hormones and what is presently going on in her life – so mark the hot spots and know when to woo her for some game time.

Let me also say, a good sex life takes time to build and a mass amount of effort to keep up – having a good sex doesn’t necessarily mean spending hours and hours frolicking – routine kills passion so always try new stuff. My advice starts with you mastering the art of  F O R E P L A Y!

#Foreplay – is connecting with her emotionally for a significant amount of time before sex!

#Foreplay – is what happens after the clothes are off!

#Foreplay – is kissing, caressing and petting

#Foreplay – is everything you might be left to wonder to begin – no better place to start – starts somewhere!

#Foreplay – is giving her feather touches – try touching her lightly with your fingers or tongues to really turn her on

#Foreplay – is trying new positions and techniques – caressing her back – face to face or with leg lying down and you all over her body.

#Foreplay – is trying new tricks and tells your partner what you prefer best!

Pointers – Ladies be aware:

“The way we (men) have sex does more than determine the time it takes for us to get it off; it determines who we are as men”

“Some men prefer it the old-fashioned way, strapped to the hood of a formula one car travelling at full speed”

“Some men like it dangling from the ceiling while hooked up to an eight-inch chain, while others like it in the depth of the Atlantic or Indian Ocean”

Ladies – “It is not only how often we have sex that matters, but how we have sex that helps defines our manhood”

Have you notice how it is the streamers and the thrashers who are very often fakers. A good sex starts with a good foreplay – if that is lacking then it not a good sexual experience. Let me reiterate that after foreplay; always play to your strength by being confident in your own abilities. Don’t start rushing into penetrating her after few kisses – stimulate her vulva – get it all wet up before the heavenly ride.

It is so sad to see that “lots of women are faking it and getting away with it.” – Personally, I see it as their loss.

“Don’t skip the hot spots or you’ll ruin the effect”

“Women are like knobs – you turn them up and down” – so don’t rush it.

Keep her senses alert, her body  relaxed – sometimes it take a bit longer to get her hot at the same-old song and the dance may not be enough to get her all jiggling – this is also applies to us men – so try new stuff now and then.

When you are getting it on, make sure she’s completely relaxed and comfortable. Women can only get to the height orgasmic bliss in this state.

Life is about relativity so also is our individuality. Women are different, most women don’t even reach orgasm the first couple of times they’re with a guy. Take time to figure out what works for you and your partner.

Some women love wet, sloppy kisses; other women find saliva a total turn off so find out what she wants – ask questions and let her show you how to do it to her.

Some women love lots of breast stimulation; others can’t stand it all – so observe and follow her lead. – My favourite organ is the breast – any day any time –#justsaying – LOL

Some women love to be on top in bed; others love the missionary style. Whatever she likes, take her up on it and never back down or you’ll lose points from her.

Some women respond to intense clitoral stimulation; others require very little and they are on – know how your partner body function and “use” the knowledge for both your advantage.

Another way to have a good sex life is to figure out a sex script that works and stick to it but remember “familiarity can breed boredom”; if it can yield consistent orgasm – why fix what’s not broken? Stick to it!

Some women don’t know how to “speak penis” and I expect the guy to give her a clue. Take time to know your way around her vulva – from the northern tippy-top of the clitoral glands which referred to as the love-button to the western and northern boundaries of the labia (her inner lips) and then the southernmost region of the perineum (skin below her vagina gate).

Most men mistake or think that the clitoris is a little bump; no it is not but a complex network of nerves, the Xanadu at heart of the female sexuality.

Very important: “most women will get off with the tongue than penis”

When it comes to pleasuring a women and conversing in the language of love – cunnilingus should be every man’s native tongue. Use it!

Cunnilingus: Still your tongue against her vulva and let her do the work – it’s the cunnilingus effect of letting get on top of you.

This is very important: ‘show some sexual courtesy, as in “she cums first” – pay attention to her arousal and potential orgasmic ecstasy’

Guys: “more stimulations = more arousal = easier and faster orgasm.” Women take longer to orgasm than men.

The Read Deal: “her hands are hot and her abdomen warm and at the same time her language almost become unintelligible” – “her body is soft as jelly and her limbs are droopy”

Very Important: After all the shabang – you’ve cum and she has reach orgasm – DONT FORGET TO CUDDLE HER!

Sexologist Theodore van de Velde: “it’s in the moment after orgasm that a man proves whether or not he’s an erotically civilized adult.”

I hope these #SexTips will aid you a healthier sex life and get her to the place of pure orgasmic bliss – practice make perfect! Go wank that thingy – Have fun!

@dantebello on Twitter.

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One Response to “Get Her from Foreplay to Orgasmic Bliss – #SexTips”

  1. Interesting…Good advice. Doing some research on tantric sex. Really interested in the spiritual aspects of sex; connecting on that level versus the limited physical connection.

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